Hand Massage Hits the Right Spot

A Favorite Quick Tip! Non-sexual touching has been used as an erotic interlude since Masters and Johnson. These days we are starved for touch, more than ever. We live in cyberspace, buried in our devices. I urge you to connect with your lover tonight. Sometimes one or both of you […] Read more »

Lube Can Make it Better

Recently, UFC fighter Rhonda Rousey thought she was doing women “a favor” by telling her Maxim readers, “What should a guy always do? Take his time. In general, a girl takes a minute. He needs to get her ready. You should never need lube in your life. If you need […] Read more »

Did the Hottest October on Record Damage Your Sex Life?

is global warming damaging your sex life?

The past couple of days have been so wonderful…a crispness in the air that comes with Fall. The ability to wear a jacket, a scarf and even close-toed shoes or boots. This is my California. For years, this was the weather we experienced all year round, even in the summer. […] Read more »

What Makes Warming Lube Hot?

What causes the warming sensation, or more likely burning sensation, in KY Warming Jelly , KY Passion, Wet Warming Gel, Astroglide Warming and other similar warming lubes? You may be surprised to find out it is the same ingredient that makes Fireball Cinnamon Whisky hot. Fireball, the Whisky which was […] Read more »

Why Do We Love Hotel Sex?

Ahhh… hotel sex, for some the holy grail of sex. Both men and women love it. It gives us an escape. So why is hotel sex so great? When we are in our homes, we can always find something to do. This can clutter a mind. Taking time for intimacy […] Read more »

Pegging – All the Cool Kids Are Doing It

I have to admit when I heard Ruby Ryder’s latest podcast that featured some questions about strap-on play from a UCLA gal, I was quite impressed. I have been saying that the younger men are much more open to and interested in ass play than men my age, even though […] Read more »